Monday, May 27, 2013
Our Lost Veterans: Memorial Day - Commemorating Those We Lost and App...
Our Lost Veterans: Memorial Day - Commemorating Those We Lost and App...: Memorial Day affects us all differently. Whether we have family or friends lost in the military, or just feel appreciative to those who gave...
Memorial Day - Commemorating Those We Lost and Appreciating Those We Have
Memorial Day affects us all differently. Whether we have family or friends lost in the military, or just feel appreciative to those who gave their lives for our freedoms, it is a time of reflection and thanks. It also feels like a late spring Thanksgiving that we celebrate to remember the people who believed so much in our country, that they either volunteered or accepted being drafted, and, in excahnge, gave their lives.
For the families of soldiers we recently lost, the pain must be unbearable. Their sons and daughters volunteered and paid the ultimate price. I salute organizations like the Gold Star Mothers who, in their own pain, support fellow parents as they receive the dreaded and horrible news. My thoughts often stray to these parents and I'm afraid to imagine their pain.
Memorial Day is also a teachable moment. I remind my sons that they are able to continue their lives uninterrrupted due to our soldiers. Both have enjoyed their college years, courtesy of our young men and women who volunteered, way too many who have lost their lives. As young men between the ages of 18-26, they are registered for the draft. Neither one, so far, has even given a throught to the idea of receiving a draft notice in the mail. Thank you again to our volunteers.
As a parent this has become extremely personal. "Other people's children" have given their lives so my sons can continue to live free and easy lives. "Other people's children" return home facing challenges with losing limbs, severe pain, PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), traumatic brain injury, and a host of other issues, while my sons live somewhat carefree.
As citizens of this wonderful country, we have so much to be grateful for on a daily basis. Today I'd like to give a special THANK YOU to the families of those lost and those serving. The families of our soldiers are on the frontlines as well, dealing with the pain of loss, waiting for their loved one's return or helping their loved one return to civilian life. All of you sacrifice so much for non-military families and we appreciate you every day of our lives.
Judy I. Schaffer
Founder/President
Heroes to Heroes Foundation
heroestoheroes.org
For the families of soldiers we recently lost, the pain must be unbearable. Their sons and daughters volunteered and paid the ultimate price. I salute organizations like the Gold Star Mothers who, in their own pain, support fellow parents as they receive the dreaded and horrible news. My thoughts often stray to these parents and I'm afraid to imagine their pain.
Memorial Day is also a teachable moment. I remind my sons that they are able to continue their lives uninterrrupted due to our soldiers. Both have enjoyed their college years, courtesy of our young men and women who volunteered, way too many who have lost their lives. As young men between the ages of 18-26, they are registered for the draft. Neither one, so far, has even given a throught to the idea of receiving a draft notice in the mail. Thank you again to our volunteers.
As a parent this has become extremely personal. "Other people's children" have given their lives so my sons can continue to live free and easy lives. "Other people's children" return home facing challenges with losing limbs, severe pain, PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), traumatic brain injury, and a host of other issues, while my sons live somewhat carefree.
As citizens of this wonderful country, we have so much to be grateful for on a daily basis. Today I'd like to give a special THANK YOU to the families of those lost and those serving. The families of our soldiers are on the frontlines as well, dealing with the pain of loss, waiting for their loved one's return or helping their loved one return to civilian life. All of you sacrifice so much for non-military families and we appreciate you every day of our lives.
Judy I. Schaffer
Founder/President
Heroes to Heroes Foundation
heroestoheroes.org
Monday, May 20, 2013
Heroes to Heroes Searches for Veterans Before It's too Late
During a recent meeting with a person involved in Veterans Affairs in the state of New Jersey, it became apparent that many of our veterans who suffer from PTSD and Traumtic Brain Injury are hidden from the veterans' community and, naturally, society as a whole. The suicide rate among these veterans is rising. We can't slow it or ultimately stop it unless we can identify those most vulnerable before they become statistics.
Imagine being between the ages of 20-55 years old and knowing that you most likely will be unable to hold a job again in your lifetime. You've served your country, and have challenges you don't undersand and are not always able to control. You look like everyone else; you have your limbs and no recognizable injuries. There is no pity or understanding for you. You're not a 'poster child' for any organization. Your real challenges are with mental health - a scary diagnosis that comes with many stigmas. If you let others know, they may judge you, offer their advice, and help make you feel less than you are.
American culture rewards work. People want to support their families. Veterans, in particular, are givers. They volunteer to help the country and many want to continue to contribute long after their return. Instead, many of our veterans with PTSD and TBI are returning to little or no real understanding. Those who are put on 100% disability are unable to work since they will lose a portion or all of their disability for doing so. Instead of feeling productive and contributing what they can, some are sitting at home with the shades drawn, possibly drinking, doing drugs, and/or smoking themselves to death.
Every person matters. Each veteran matters and we need to let them know that they do. We have a big country and there is more than enough to do to keep it running. Whether our citizens work in paid positions or as volunteers, there is a place for everyone.
As the American community we can listen for the signs of a lost veteran. Does someone we know have a friend or family member, discharged from the military who has distanced him/herself from the world? Are they not participating in the basics of family life? Have they given up? Have their families/friends given up on them? If so, please reach out to professionals and help them get into the system before it's too late. Organizations like Heroes to Heroes are looking to find these veterans who can 'be brought back to life' with support. There are many people doing great things to help save those who have done so much for us. Let's commit to helping our most vulnerable veterans move forward.
Judy Schaffer
May 20, 2013
Please visit us at LinkedIn/JudyIsaacsonSchafferheroestoheroes.org
Imagine being between the ages of 20-55 years old and knowing that you most likely will be unable to hold a job again in your lifetime. You've served your country, and have challenges you don't undersand and are not always able to control. You look like everyone else; you have your limbs and no recognizable injuries. There is no pity or understanding for you. You're not a 'poster child' for any organization. Your real challenges are with mental health - a scary diagnosis that comes with many stigmas. If you let others know, they may judge you, offer their advice, and help make you feel less than you are.
American culture rewards work. People want to support their families. Veterans, in particular, are givers. They volunteer to help the country and many want to continue to contribute long after their return. Instead, many of our veterans with PTSD and TBI are returning to little or no real understanding. Those who are put on 100% disability are unable to work since they will lose a portion or all of their disability for doing so. Instead of feeling productive and contributing what they can, some are sitting at home with the shades drawn, possibly drinking, doing drugs, and/or smoking themselves to death.
Every person matters. Each veteran matters and we need to let them know that they do. We have a big country and there is more than enough to do to keep it running. Whether our citizens work in paid positions or as volunteers, there is a place for everyone.
As the American community we can listen for the signs of a lost veteran. Does someone we know have a friend or family member, discharged from the military who has distanced him/herself from the world? Are they not participating in the basics of family life? Have they given up? Have their families/friends given up on them? If so, please reach out to professionals and help them get into the system before it's too late. Organizations like Heroes to Heroes are looking to find these veterans who can 'be brought back to life' with support. There are many people doing great things to help save those who have done so much for us. Let's commit to helping our most vulnerable veterans move forward.
Judy Schaffer
May 20, 2013
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